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National Catholic Reporter: Chaplain, nun and captain on the Mississippi: the men didn't expect a ch

When Simon Peter and his brother Andrew answered a call to become not only fishermen but also "fishers of men," they might have wondered what, exactly, that meant. But when Joy Manthey of New Orleans decided to expand her job as a riverboat captain to include ministering to riverboat captains (and pilots and deckhands), she knew exactly what she was doing. She had once written a class paper on an image of God as a GPS--a Global Positioning Satellite.

"God always knows exactly where I am, just like a GPS," Manthey said. And she makes it her business to know where her people are on the river, the big one, the Mississippi.

At first, the men she ministers to were a bit mystified. They didn't expect their chaplain to be a woman. They didn't expect a woman who knew the river culture and its lingo, the waterway and its dangers, or, especially, the complexity and loneliness of their jobs. And the last thing they expected was a nun.

Manthey, a Sister of St. Joseph of Medaille, headquartered in Cincinnati but with communities all along the Ohio and Mississippi rivers, has been navigating the Mississippi virtually all her life. Her great-great-grandfather, John Streckfus, built the first excursion boat on the Mississippi River. Her great-uncle hired a young Louis Armstrong to play jazz on the Streckfus boats. She earned her captain's license as a high school senior, and at age 21 she became the first woman to earn an Unlimited Inland Master of Steam and Motor Vessels license, qualifying her to both pilot and captain a vessel on any inland waterway in the United States.

"I was 10 the first time I took the wheel," she recalled, evoking a memory of the day the captain of a Streckfus passenger boat let her take the wheel while he ate lunch. "I had to stand on milk crates, because I couldn't see over the wheel."

Her height notwithstanding, from that day on she grew in knowledge and ability, learning the ways of the river and the people who navigate it. But as any woman knows, being qualified for a "man's job" and being allowed to do that job are sometimes two different things. For 16 years, Manthey piloted excursion boats while trying to get a job on the kind of boat she really wanted to pilot--a towboat, the workhorse of the Mississippi River. For 16 years, even though she was well qualified, no one would hire her because she was female.

"They'd say, 'We're not hiring any cooks,'" she said. In a way, they were echoing her fifth-grade teacher who, after assigning the topic of what students wanted to be when they grew up, responded to Joy's essay by telling her to erase it and put down a real answer.

Amidst lifelong blockades to life on a towboat, at age 24 Manthey opened her own passenger boat business and operated it from Baton Rouge, La., for 13 years. Still wanting a towboat job, in 1995 she was sitting in the pilothouse of a casino boat when she happened to see a small newspaper ad about the Sisters of St. Joseph of Medaille.

"I had thought about being a nun for a long time, but there was a problem," she said. "I didn't want to teach and I didn't want to nurse. And that's what I thought nuns did."

Nevertheless, Manthey enrolled in the religious community's discernment process and began living with the sisters in New Orleans. She learned that the community's founder, Jesuit Fr. Jean Pierre Medaille, in 1650 had told the sisters to minister to people in whatever way was needed. Shortly after entering the discernment process, and as if on divine cue, Manthey received a job offer from a towboat company. It was as if answering the call to religious life had opened the door for a call she had been awaiting for 16 years.

"It felt like God calling," she said. The towboat job paid one third of what her income had been with the passenger boat business she had closed the year before, but something important was happening that had little to do with her financial status. As she sat waiting for barges to be loaded or unloaded, the men working on them started to become curious about her. Manthey began talking to them in her relaxed, offhand way, and in their own language. Before long, the men began sharing their troubles with her. "They started pouring out their hearts and souls," she explained. "And I thought: This is a ministry."

Indicative of things to come was a young tow captain named Kevin (not his real name). The first time Manthey saw him, he talked to her with his mouth nearly closed. He had bitten his tongue.

"I asked him what he was doing for it, and I saw a tube of Neosporin on the desk. I said, 'You're putting Neosporin on your tongue?' I'm not a gofer or a floating pharmacy, but I offered to get him the medicine he needed. And I did. Two days later he called to say he hadn't been able to eat in five days, so I took him to the hospital. He had never been in a hospital, not since he was born. That's common among the guys. They just move through pain. Anyway, he got two IVs, and I sat like a mama with him."

Manthey professed first vows with the Sisters of St. Joseph in January 2000. Later that year, she was hired on as a chaplain for the new Ministry on the River program of the Seamen's Church Institute of New York and New Jersey. It was a ministry for which she was exceptionally qualified.

"I know when it's safe to tall to the guys and when it isn't," Manthey explained, pointing out that work on the barges requires careful timing that can mean the difference between safety and catastrophe. "It's dangerous work. They fall overboard. They get crushed. A lock line can pop and split a man in two."

For the services these men provide, delivering lumber and grain and oil to countless homes and businesses along the Mississippi, their jobs are difficult, dirty and dangerous. But there's yet another, more insidious threat.

"They get lonely," Manthey said. "They spend two-thirds of their lives on the boats. It's hard for them to establish or maintain relationships. They miss their wives, their kids' first Communions. One of the most important parts of my ministry is to let the men get their troubles off their chests. It's a ministry of presence. When they can talk their troubles out, they're more focused on the job, and less likely to have an accident when catching lines or tying barges. They know I'm there for them. They know they're not forgotten."

Being forgotten is a chronic byproduct of life on the river. In fact, inland waterways are often overlooked as a vital transportation industry. If those towboats didn't do their jobs on the river, Manthey said, a loaf of bread might cost $6, and a gallon of gasoline $4. River transportation is not only economical, it's also environmentally sound. For every 25-barge "tow" (the collective name for the barges and their towboat) transporting cargo on the river, there are 1,500 fewer tractor-trailer rigs needed on the highway. But this cost-effective transportation can take a toll on quality of life for the people who carry it out.

"One of the biggest problems is sustaining relationships," Manthey said. "They like the lifestyle on the river, and now the cell phones make it easier to talk to their families, but cell phones can also hurt. Knowing everything that's going on at home, as it's happening, can intensify the loneliness."

Healing wounds of heart, soul, mind and body is Manthey's job. And with Kevin, the 20-something towboat captain, it was healing the body, at least at first.

"It turns out that Kevin had an abscessed tonsil. I practically had to sit on him while they lanced it at the hospital," Manthey said. "He really was scared to death. I took him to get a prescription and then back to the boat. Two days later he called, and I took him back to the hospital. He wasn't eating and was dehydrated again."

Having tended to Kevin's hospital needs once again, Manthey drove him back to the boat. "We were on top of the Huey P. Long Bridge," an infamously narrow, rickety, and highly arched bridge over the Mississippi River, "and he looks at me and says: 'So, what is it that you do?' I couldn't believe it! I said, 'Well, what I do is what I've been doing for you this past week!' And he said, 'Oh, OK.'"

Kevin was doubtless too concerned with his throbbing throat to keep track of Manthey's job description, but the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops' Web site includes Manthey on its list of "Religious Men and Women Worth Knowing" (www.usecb.org/vocations/consecrated/atoz.htm). The listing, however--"Steamboat Captain and Chaplain on the Mississippi"--does not exactly fit her priorities, she said: "I'm a chaplain first, and a captain second."

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Wearing her chaplain's hat one day, three months after ministering to Kevin and his tonsil, Manthey received a call from the port captain.

"During our conversation he mentioned that Kevin had told all the men, 'That preacher woman ain't gettin' on my boat.' In front of his men, he called me 'that preacher woman' and 'the Captain Nun.' And that's OK." Manthey smiled a wicked smile. There is more to this story.

"A year later, I was at the dock and went to visit Kevin. When he saw me, he said, 'Let's go outside.' And then he said, 'Can I hug you?' He hugged me three times. He said that my helping him when he was sick had prompted him to turn his whole life around. That's what ministry is about--how God uses us to bring somebody else to a place they've never been before. That's what I'm called to do, to be 'Jesus in the skin,' listening compassionately and caring for these men."

In a way, her ministry does that for many other people as well, by connecting them over the miles with the men who so often feel forgotten. This Christmas, Manthey will help distribute gifts for the men on the Mississippi as part of the Seamen's Church Institute's "Christmas on the River" program.

"For most of these guys, Christmas is just another day," Manthey explained. Working with volunteers, she collects hand-knitted scarves, vests, sweaters, devotionals and homemade cookies from people around the country. This year, the men will receive photo albums for pictures of their families that they can keep with them on the boat. But perhaps the best part of the package each man receives is a small bundle of Christmas cards handmade by schoolchildren from all over the United States.

"I'll never forget what one of the kids wrote on a card," Manthey laughed. "Mr. Mariner, please be careful. Your first step could be a doozy."

[Deborah Halter is a lecturer in World Religions at Loyola University, New Orleans.]

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